Banana Parfaits
- By Jennifer Segal
- Updated April 16, 2026
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These banana parfaits are a more sophisticated take on the classic Southern pudding, using rich homemade vanilla pudding and buttery shortbread cookies.

These banana parfaits are a slightly fancier take on classic banana pudding, the Southern dessert made with layers of vanilla pudding, bananas, and vanilla wafers. While many versions rely on store-bought shortcuts for the pudding and whipped cream, this one goes the homemade route. A rum-spiked vanilla pudding, lightened with homemade whipped cream, is layered with bananas and buttery shortbread cookies in individual glasses. It’s a little more dressed up, but still pure comfort food. The pudding needs a few hours to chill, and the parfaits are best assembled a few hours ahead, so plan accordingly.
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What you’ll need to make Banana Pudding Parfaits

You’ll need sugar, cornstarch, salt, egg yolks, milk, butter, vanilla, rum, heavy cream, confectioners’ sugar, ripe bananas, and shortbread cookies.
Instead of the classic Nilla wafers, I use crumbled Walkers Pure Butter Shortbread cookies (any brand of shortbread cookies will work) because they have a rich, buttery flavor and stay crunchy even when completely covered with pudding. The crunch of the cookies against the creamy smoothness of the bananas and pudding is what makes these parfaits unique. If you want to stick with tradition and use vanilla wafers, that’ll work too; just keep in mind that they will have a softer texture.
Step-By-Step Instructions
Step 1: Prep the base. Combine the egg yolks, sugar, cornstarch, and salt in a medium saucepan and whisk together.
Pro Tip: Whisking the dry ingredients with the egg yolks before adding the milk creates a smooth paste. This prevents the cornstarch from clumping, ensuring your pudding has a silky texture.

Step 2: Add the milk. Whisk in the milk and bring the mixture to a simmer over medium heat.

Step 3: Thicken and flavor. Once bubbling, reduce the heat and whisk constantly until the pudding thickens; then, off the heat, add the butter, vanilla, and rum and whisk until evenly combined.

Step 4: Chill the pudding. Transfer the pudding to a large bowl and refrigerate for a few hours until cold, placing plastic wrap directly on the surface to prevent a film from forming.
Pro Tip: If you’re in a hurry, place the bowl of hot pudding inside a larger bowl filled with ice and a little water. Whisking the pudding occasionally in this ice bath will rapidly draw heat out and chill it more quickly.

Step 5: Prep the cream. Once the pudding is cold, whip the heavy cream on medium-low speed.
Pro Tip: For texture, you’re aiming for silky peaks that hold their shape, and be careful not to overwhip. If you accidentally overwhip the cream and it looks grainy, gently fold in another tablespoon or two of the heavy cream with a spatula to smooth it back out.

Step 6: Fold the mixture. Add the whipped cream to the pudding and gently fold it in, then put it in the fridge until you are ready to assemble the parfaits.
Pro Tip: Using a folding motion incorporates the airy cream into the heavy pudding without deflating it, resulting in a fluffy mousse.

Step 7: Assemble the parfaits. Spoon a large dollop of pudding into the bottom of each glass, cover with a layer of crumbled cookies and bananas, and repeat the layers, finishing with the pudding.

Step 8: Garnish and Refrigerate. Crush some of the remaining cookies into crumbs and sprinkle over top of each parfait. Refrigerate for at least 3 hours or up to 12 hours.

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Banana Parfaits
Ingredients
For the Pudding
- ¾ cup + 2 tablespoons sugar
- ¼ cup + 2 tablespoons cornstarch
- ½ teaspoon salt
- 6 egg yolks
- 3½ cups whole milk
- 2 tablespoons unsalted butter
- 1 tablespoon + 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
- 1½ tablespoons dark rum
For the Sweetened Whipped Cream
- ¾ cup heavy cream, cold
- 2 tablespoons confectioners' sugar
For Assembling
- 4 bananas, very ripe but not mushy, sliced (see note)
- 2 (5.3-oz) boxes Walkers Pure Butter Shortbread Cookies, or similar, broken into ¼-inch pieces
Instructions
- In a medium saucepan, whisk the sugar, cornstarch, salt, and egg yolks. Whisk in the milk and bring to simmer, stirring frequently, over medium heat (it will take 5 to 8 minutes). When the mixture starts to bubble, turn the heat down to low and continue cooking, whisking constantly, for 1 to 2 minutes until the mixture thickens. Remove the pan from the heat and immediately whisk in the butter, vanilla and rum. Transfer the mixture to a bowl and place a piece of plastic wrap directly over the pudding to prevent a film from forming. Chill in the refrigerator until cool, a few hours. (To hurry it up, you can place the bowl in an ice bath and whisk occasionally until cold.)
- Once the pudding is cold, place the heavy cream in a medium mixing bowl. Using an electric mixer, whip on medium-low speed until the whisk or beaters begin to leave tracks in the cream. Add the confectioners' sugar and whip until the cream holds medium, silky peaks. Go slowly towards the end; if it gets grainy or curdled, you’ve gone too far. Use a rubber spatula to fold the whipped cream into the cold pudding.
- Spoon a large dollop of the pudding mixture into the bottom of each parfait glass. Top with one layer of cookie pieces and one layer of sliced bananas. Repeat once and top with a final layer of pudding. Crumble some of the cookie pieces and sprinkle over top. Refrigerate for at least 3 hours or up to 12 hours.
Notes
Nutrition Information
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I have seen so many recipes for banana pudding and this is by far the best-looking! I will let you know when I test it out… and how my southern friends react to eating the best banana pudding they’ve ever had… made by a YANKEE, haha!
HI Jen,
These look delicious and I love that I can make them ahead of time. We’re having some friends over for dinner on Saturday and I’m planning to make them. How do you think it would turn out if I used Captain Morgan’s Spiced Rum instead of the dark rum?
Hi Robin, It would be just fine to use spiced rum. Hope you enjoy!
This was so good and easy to make! Thanks for all the great recipes.
You’re welcome, Dawn!
Can rum flavoring be used as a substitute
Hi Brenda, I wouldn’t bother; you can leave out the rum and it will still be wonderful.
Glad to see this…I was worried about the Rum since I am making it for my 2yr old daughter.
Hi Jenn:
got to try this, being southern and all, you know banana pudding is at the top of the list for me. thanks for such wonderful and tasteful eats. have a great day. One thing, I don’t use alcohol in any form, so would it make too big of a taste different if the rum wasn’t added?
Hi Betty, It is totally fine to leave it out; it just adds a little flavor boost. Hope you enjoy it!
Would be great even without the bananas. Love the addition of the dark rum. You use that in an apple cake of yours and it really adds depth.
I love this idea; I just bought some quick- sale ripe
bananas just for baking or to use in a recipe. This is
perfect. Thanks for sharing!
Do you think this would work with almond or soy milk? I would love to make it pareve for the holidays to come!
Hi Monica, I think you could definitely use a pudding made with soy or almond milk for banana pudding. However, I’d search for a well-reviewed vegan vanilla pudding and use that, rather than substitute the milk in this recipe. You’d also have to omit the whipped cream, which would change the lightness of the pudding, but I’m sure it would still be good.
Wow! It looks like you’re having all the fun at your house! Delish!
Banana pudding is my FAVORITE dessert! I also believe homemade is the only way to go! I love the shortbread idea. I’m making these this weekend!